Surviving Forced Marriage: The Story of Debora Adut Maker, a Beacon of Hope

In the heart of South Sudan, where cultural norms often dictate the trajectory of women’s lives through early and forced marriages, Debora Adut Maker stands as a testament to resilience and empowerment. As a Safeguarding Officer at the Disabled Agency for Rehabilitation and Development and an assistant lecturer at the University of Rumbek Science and Technology, Debora’s journey from a potential child bride to an advocate for education illuminates the struggles and triumphs faced by many young women in her country.

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The Onset of Challenges

“I am a survivor of forced marriage,” Debora begins her story, reflecting on her early teenage years when she first faced the threat of being married off. “The first one occurred when I was in Senior 1. My relatives did not see value in educating girls and pressured my father to marry me off,” she recalls.

Despite the familial pressure, Debora’s father stood as her pillar, rejecting the proposals and championing his daughter’s education. This initial victory, however, did not mark the end of Debora’s trials. Her relatives orchestrated another marriage plan during her senior year without her knowledge. “I was surprised when I went home for the holiday and found everything was done,” she says, the memories of confusion and betrayal still vivid.

Escaping the Marriage Trap

The intervention came once again from her steadfast ally, her father, who, despite being outnumbered and pressured by his brothers, chose to support his daughter’s aspirations. “In 2014, the arrangement was nearly finalized when I was in school. It was a stressful period, thinking about being married to someone I didn’t love and leaving school,” Debora shares.

With her father’s support, Debora returned to school after the holiday, her educational journey safeguarded once more by those who believed in her potential. “Loreto school and my dad gave me the support I needed the most. They stood with me until that case was closed,” she gratefully acknowledges.

Support Systems and Overcoming Trauma

Debora’s educational path was fraught with interruptions and the looming threat of forced marriage, but she found solace and support in Loreto Rumbek, where she completed her secondary education. “Sister Orla and other religious sisters were pillars during my toughest times. My school fees were paid by well-wishers, easing the financial burden on my family,” she explains.

The psychological impact of her experiences lingered, however. “At some points, I went through a difficult time and thought I wouldn’t make it. But I overcame all the struggles because of the support system I had,” Debora recounts.

Advocacy and Looking Forward

Today, Debora uses her position and experiences to advocate for other young women facing similar challenges. She emphasizes the importance of education and self-belief as tools for change. “Be the change that you wish to see in the world with commitment and determination. Do not be afraid to stand up for what you believe in,” she advises.

Her call to action is not just words but a reflection of her life’s work. Debora’s story is not only about the trials of overcoming forced marriage but also about the power of resilience and the impact of supportive educational environments.

Community Impact and Cultural Shifts

Debora’s advocacy is contributing to gradual cultural shifts in South Sudan. She and her colleagues at the Disabled Agency for Rehabilitation and Development work tirelessly to educate communities about the value of women’s education and the detrimental effects of early and forced marriages.

“Each story like mine that turns into a success becomes a beacon for others. We are building a community where girls can dream and achieve without fear,” Debora states, hopeful about the future.

Debora Adut Maker’s journey from a young girl targeted for marriage to a key figure in educational advocacy and women’s empowerment in South Sudan provides a powerful narrative about fighting against oppressive traditions and envisioning a new horizon for the next generation.

Her story not only sheds light on the personal struggles of young South Sudanese women but also highlights the broader societal need for sustained interventions and supportive educational policies to safeguard the futures of countless other girls in the region.

As Debora continues her work, her life remains a testament to the power of education and the enduring spirit of those who fight for their right to choose their own paths.